What do you think? Should we talk about something "bad"?
Cooper was not immaculately conceived, shocker.
I attend church regularly, I believe in God and Godly things, but I don't necessarily think it is wrong to have sex before marriage. Or should I say that I don't believe that I'm going to hell because of having sex outside of marriage?
My parents never told me that I needed to wait until marriage to have sex, they just told me to wait. Wait for what? It was up to me to figure out. We talked about being "safe", virginity being sacred, and being honest to ourselves. We also agreed not to let Dad find out (but then he did, story for another time?).
I find it amazing when I hear that people waited until marriage, it just seems so rare. It seems inevitable that they would wonder what sex with other people would be like. Is that true? If I had waited until marriage I would not have my Cooper so I am thankful that I did not. I think having a baby outside of marriage is so hard and definitely do wish that I was married, as I've said in the past.
I hope you guys will speak up because I want to hear what you think. Comment anonymously if you want! It doesn't matter to me! Did you wait? If so, was it for religious reasons? If you didn't wait, do you wish you had?